Made’s Blog

I’m flying to Bali today. My sister is couple of months pregnant, and my parents… I want to see them. To talk to my mother.

My mother, is my number one fan. I tell her I want to do this, this and that. She always supports me, or if not she will raise a question which makes me think more to make my plan perfect. She’s a worrying mother, just like any other mother to her children. I wanted to play football, she worried; Wanted to climb a mountain, she was anxious. Those, however, are with reasons, so I could understand that.

My dad, he is different. He doesn’t talk much, and he is less worry compared to my mother. Maybe it’s because of his army background. The battle field experience that he has which shapes his calmness.

My sister, she’s the bridge between my modern thoughts and my parents traditional way of thinking. If everything becomes traditional, and it’s hard for me to talk to my parents, I will talk to my sister instead. We used to fight a lot when we were kids, but we became closer… as sticky as a glue when I went to a boarding school. We were in Java, and both my parents are in Bali. So we have no options but to be good brother and sister, hehe.

So, I’ll be flying back today. I’m gonna tell them about my future plan, my plan to erase the distance of my LDR relationship and such. Let’s see what they’ll say about this.

I realise that I like to keep my life open to the public. There’s this theory of mine, which is called life-partner-replacement theory. which I would like to elaborate in a separate post. It can explain, why a person doesn’t need to marry.

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